I had an interesting conversation over the weekend that, in my mind at least, centered around the idea of personal responsibility for everyday choices.
In my view, we live in a society that has progressively disavowed itself from responsibility for its actions. This subject is a tired one for some, but it is also a subject that I believe underlies most of the problems that face the United States right now.
In particular, my weekend conversation focused on the otherwise innocuous idea of buying groceries. With each passing day, I become more skeptical of the industrial system that dominates our modern food chain from farm to factory to supermarket. There are thousands of problems endemic to this system, from the nutrition of processed foods to the safety of those same foods.
My contention is that it is time for all of us to take responsibility for our food consumption actions, an idea that elicited the inevitable “well, what am I supposed to do about it” response from some participants in my conversation. This response struck me as both odd and short sighted.
This response strikes me as odd because it implies, at the least, that where, how, and when one buys food is out of one’s control. It is that attitude that is part of the problem. As a society, we have fallen for the story told to us with such force through advertising and sheer presence that the megamart is the only place we can feed ourselves. We do not tend to think beyond the advertising for reasons that are sometimes inscrutable to me.
This response also strikes me as short sighted because it ignores the alternatives hidden just out of sight of the megamart ad. The proliferation of farmers markets, buying clubs, and reborn specialty grocery stores tells a story that the megamart does not want us to hear, but it is one we can find if we just look.
So what remains is that so many of us simply do not take responsibility for our grocery buying decisions. We make a choice to follow the lead of the megamart advertisement, but when we get fat or sick because of that choice, suddenly it is not our fault, even though there were alternatives available all along.
This idea is not just limited to groceries either, but the food buying example serves the whole problem well. Whether we are talking about groceries or gas prices or politics, the same “what am I supposed to do about it” ducking of personal choices and their consequences seems to reign, yet many people continue to be surprised when the consequences continue even as they continue to make the same choices.
This process implies that these problems–be they groceries or gas prices or politics–are unsolvable when they are entirely solvable if we choose differently. What is missing is the resolve to do the different thing, even when the benefits of such a choice are obvious.
While it is a painfully slow process, I am working to wean myself off the industrial farm system and replace it with food bought locally, from the producers, and in season. I am going so far, if everything works out as I hope it will, to take over a farm in the attempt to transform it into a sustainable one. These are active, conscious choices that I believe fly in the face of the “what am I supposed to do about it” mentality with regard to the grocery question.
We can apply this same process to most of our other everyday choices. If we do not like the price of gas, we can drive less. If we do not like the job our politicians are doing, we can involve ourselves in the political process. What we have to do, however, is choose to do something different from what we have always done.
This change in choice involves more than just shopping at a different grocery; it necessarily involves consciously choosing to accept the consequences that result. Sure, locally produced, in season food is more expensive. Driving less alters my lifestyle. Being politically active requires action and commitment on my part. These are consequences, yet to me at least, these are consequences I accept because of their benefits to my quality of life and wellbeing.
What can I do about it? I can choose responsibly being fully conscious of the consequences I accept as part of the choices I have made. I can change my grocery shopping habits because I believe it is the right thing to do for reasons that transcend convenience, slick advertizing, and habit. I can apply this same model to whatever I do, no longer doing them by rote but because I am trying to make something happen.
In making such choices, I become part of the solution instead of part of the problem. At that moment “what am I supposed to do about it” becomes an invitation rather than an excuse.
Cross-posted at A Host of Contributing Factors
Putting pretention on the, “What am I supposed to do about it?”
It is a disavowingly phrased, question. We seemingly can’t literally do anything without acting as some sort of well revolutionized team In cases or fuel or food. It’s up to us to mainly consume. With food we inevitably expel the waste whether it be organic, expulsion or depositing the packaging into a recepticle which either gets recycled or put into a landfill.
The statement that I was always faced with was especially in younger years was, “It’s up to you.”
“It’s on you.”
“You’re in charge of your life, Make your own decisions.”
Along with this advice, thankfully came the advice, “If you need help, ask for it.”
That’s a lot less discouraging than, “It’s up to you.”
Thinking, “Oh no. You mean, I have to make a series of complicated decisions all by myself?”
You can ask for help but you bang the gavel for you’re own life.
When somebody says, “What am I supposed to to about it?”
Either they care and want to have help in making a decision or they don’t want to care and they’re copping out in trying to throw off the responsiblity of making a true decision.
I for one do not like the sassy, version of, “What am I supposed to do about it?”
It’s a cop out. A better statement might be, “What can I do about this and be strategically placed to make differences in a positive way.”
Try getting the average American to philosophize, feelingly like that.
This society that’s progressively disavowed it self as you speak of, could they thankfully till the earth as you do? Could they go fishing and hunting and preserve their food as old day Americans could? Could they effectively raise livestock?
Could they invent, refridgeration from scratch?
Could they buy a shiny red hummer with a chrome brush guard with no intention of driving it offroad and pass you on the right exceeding the speed limit by 20 m.p.h. and be sitting next to you at the next red light? All they’re doing is going to the grocery and buying gas too.
Your last statement hits the heart of the matter dead on.
I believe that Americans gan do whatever they want if they put their minds to it. We put a man on the moon and helped eradicate smallpox. What is creating a sustainable food and energy system compared to those?